I found something that works for me on the web after much looking. In Page_Load, just add the 2 lines:
ibtnDelete.Attributes.Add(“language”, “javascript”)
ibtnDelete.Attributes.Add(“OnClick”, “return confirm(‘Are you sure you want to delete this record?’);”)
This will bring up an OK/Cancel box when the button is clicked; if Cancel is then clicked the button’s click event code won’t run.